One incident that I
remember is when my friend and I were shopping at a boutique (typically on
white people shop at). As soon as we
walked through the door, we were greeted by the owner. As we continued to look around the store, she
trailed us as if she was checking the items on the shelf. She then continued to follow us and asked us
several times if we need help looking for anything. My friend responded to her, that there were
other people in the store that may need her help because we are just
browsing. She then left, and sent a
sales associate to follow us around the store.
In other words or less, we were social profiled. Which bothered me greatly, we asked why she
was following us, and she said that she was just giving us customer
service. However, we left without
causing any problems.
This made me feel like
black people cannot afford to shop in boutiques and that because we were
browsing she “assumed” that we were trying to steal. It makes me sad that I cannot go into a store
and shop without being socially profiled.
I would ask the other
customers in the store how that would make them feel if they were followed
around the store. I would then pull the
owner to the side and discuss how I feel like what she did was completely inappropriate
in I would point out the fact that she social profiled my friend and I. I would also tell her that we were nice about
the
situation, but if it
were someone else they might’ve not been.